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Our tour in Blacktown is very depressing

June16June16 PerthPosts: 62Member
edited October 2012 in Family Matters
My father is living in blacktown with his mistress but they get married after my father's citizenship was awarded. I dunno how they did it. My mother is the legal wife here in the Phils.

My dad initiated and paid our tourist visa but when we arrived there, his mistress obviously did not like us. She fabricated stories against us. Living there for more than a month is like living in hell.

I have a pending working visa, and my father's mistress is doing everything just to ruin my life. Now I need money for settlement fund but my dad decided not to help me financially because of his mistress.



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  • TasBurrfootTasBurrfoot Osaka
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    My father is living in blacktown with his mistress but they get married after my father's citizenship was awarded. I dunno how they did it. My mother is the legal wife here in the Phils.

    My dad initiated and paid our tourist visa but when we arrived there, his mistress obviously did not like us. She fabricated stories against us. Living there for more than a month is like living in hell.

    I have a pending working visa, and my father's mistress is doing everything just to ruin my life. Now I need money for settlement fund but my dad decided not to help me financially because of his mistress.



    I am sorry to hear this mate... :(

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  • paris_hiponparis_hipon Sydney
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    wheres the mistress? shall we beat him for you joke hehe just trying to cheer you up. Hard situation you are in I suggest do the application on your own loan on a bank or sumthin show them you can do it on yer own mate. :)

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  • June16June16 Perth
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    Thanks psychoboy & paris_hipon. yeah you're right, I have to do this on my own now. The mistress is busy holding my dad's b____
  • li_i_renli_i_ren North Ryde
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    your dad got married again kasi filipinos who gets married in foreign countries are not required to get a CENOMAR..or certificate of no marriage. so if he is married in the philippines..australia will not know BUT if he goes home to the philippines, your mom can file for bigamy/ adultery unfortunately either are not grounds for annulment either.
    best of luck.. the best revenge is to succeed in your goals. kunting tiis lang, God has plans.
  • aoleeaolee Singapore
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    I agree, the sweetest revenge is to succeed in your own. but then always bear in mind not to bear a grudge with your father and his mistress. Despite the all the hurt and hardship they've inflicted, let try our best to show Christlikeness! :-bd

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    Please spare some time to read our "Rules" located at the bottom of the page.

  • June16June16 Perth
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    Thanks li_i_ren & aolee. Tama kayo, "the sweetest revenge is to succeed." salamat po talaga
  • JClemJClem Melbourne
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    Kaya mo yan! This forum and the forumers here are here to help you on the application process. :)

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  • aldousnowaldousnow Sydney
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    Yep. We may not be a help financially, but for moral support and application process, our experience might help you.

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  • LokiJrLokiJr Quezon City
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    Hostile po ba si mistress? I guess you can consider moving to a different place...para hindi naman maging miserable buhay niyo diyan :)
  • June16June16 Perth
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    Thanks JClem, aldousnow.

    LokiJR, yeah yung bang typical na mistress sa mga soap opera, akala ko sa pelikula lang yun, tutuo pala, hehe. Nasa sydney sila, my family got a state sponsorship in WA. mabuti nalang nga.
  • MetaformMetaform Melbourne
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    Look at the bright side. At least you made it there and got sponsorship away from the stepmum. Yung iba naaabandona ng parents and worse, naabandona sa Pinas! (Lol lagot ako sa mga Pinas fans)

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  • cinnamon20cinnamon20 Sydney
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    @June16 - hello nalulungkot ako sa storya mo.. .. Well just to share lang naman eh baliktad naman tayo hehehe.. May stepmom din ako dyan sa Blacktown sa Mt. Druitt bale 1st stepmom ko sya and may mga kapatid ako sa knya (haf brother and sister) mas mga bata sila sa kin.. So far mabait ang stepmom ko na yun. She even invited me to migrate in Australia at pati yung aussie husband nya(yes nag asawa sya ulit) mabait din.. pero syempre d pa din perfect.. d naman sya rude like ng asawa ng tatay mo.. But syempre iba pa din kapag nanay mo talaga..

    Hayaan mo may araw din yang mistress ng tatay mo.. Buti d mo nilason (JOWK) heheh...I guess ganun talaga kasi d k nya kadugo so she will do whatever she wants.. God Bless :)

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  • johnandjoshjohnandjosh Brisbane
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    Hostile po ba si mistress? I guess you can consider moving to a different place...para hindi naman maging miserable buhay niyo diyan :)

    If I were you @June16 I will stay close to your Dad and his mistress and start ruining her life.
  • June16June16 Perth
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    cinnamon20,

    Kaswerte mo naman, ambait ng stepmom mo. yung kasing stepmom ko, taga liblib na lugar dito sa atin kaya nung naging mistress na siya ng dad ko, feeling nya pag aari na nya lahat pati properties ng dad. ginayuma yata nya ang dad, kasi sa kutis palang taob na yun sa mom ko. hampanget pa. ang tawag nga ng mga kapatid ko "pangit" sa mistress na yun.


    Pinaubaya ko na ang dad ko sa mistress nya. Nung iniwan nya kami, sinira nya ang pamilya ko. Ngayon they are coniving with his mistress. Bahala na ang nasa itaas.
    Hostile po ba si mistress? I guess you can consider moving to a different place...para hindi naman maging miserable buhay niyo diyan :)

    If I were you @June16 I will stay close to your Dad and his mistress and start ruining her life.
  • LokiJrLokiJr Quezon City
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    Hostile po ba si mistress? I guess you can consider moving to a different place...para hindi naman maging miserable buhay niyo diyan :)

    If I were you @June16 I will stay close to your Dad and his mistress and start ruining her life.
    Palaban ka pala! Kakapanood ba ng telenobela? heheh joke :D
  • arch_jeffmattarch_jeffmatt Sydney
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    @June16 ganun yata ang panahon ngayon kahit pangit nagiging mistress :(|)

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  • June16June16 Perth
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    arch_jeffmatt,

    That's true. Uso na kasi ang blo_ Job, malamang A1 ang performance ng mistress nya sa ganon.
    @June16 ganun yata ang panahon ngayon kahit pangit nagiging mistress :(|)
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