Im posting these cases, so you can read and compare if your kid's condition is the same in this SUCCESSFUL case of migration with Down Syndrome:
Source: http://www.austlii.edu.au/au/cases/cth/IRTA/1998/13053.html
<i>Julius benefits from dedicated and intelligent parenting. With regard to all the above behaviours, his parents convey to him expectations, that are both reasonable and socially normative. He is included meaningfully in all family events and activities. He is encouraged and assisted to develop socially integrative habits and behaviours. He will "tidy up". He readily accepts instruction to e.g. prepare for bedtime or mealtimes, to be quiet, gentle and so on. He has been initiating his own toilet for a considerable time. He initiates social contact: he shows one his toys and playspaces etc. Julius is happily involved, accepted and integrated in his community playgroup where he engages in all of the normal activities along with the other children.
A critical factor in any assessment as to the likely costs to the community of a person with Down's Syndrome <b>is the extent of family support which that person is likely to receive</b>. Both the Applicant and Mr Rode presented not only as parents who were wholeheartedly committed to Julius' well-being, they also had the time and finances to implement this. <b>They are people of independent means who have substantial assets and private health cover</b>. They have joined two local support groups, the Disability Services Commission and the Down-Syndrome Association of WA Inc. In addition Julius has <b>three adult step-siblings in Australia who are financially independent and who are willing to render support and assistance in Julius' upbringing</b>. These observations were supported by the comments of JEB Frost in the report of 29 May 1998 where it was said 'Mr and Mrs Rode are clearly intelligent, socially and culturally well adapted people. They have a community of social networks, ties and connections. They are doyens of a close and supportive extended family. Julius is cherished and included in these networks and by his extended family';</i>