I actually have a brother na nasa somewhat similar situation ngayon, and honestly na-discourage din siya sa recent migration changes.
At one point, gusto niya muna mag-stop kasi parang biglang naging mas uncertain yung pathway compared before. Pero after namin mapag-usapan, na-realize niya rin na if hihintayin niya maging “stable” or perfect ulit yung migration environment, baka wala talagang mangyari kasi policies can change anytime naman.
So ang naging mindset niya ngayon is “Tuloy lang, pero stay realistic.”
Meaning continue pa rin siya sa process, pero mas prepared financially, may backup plans, and hindi niya ginagawa na buong future niya naka-depend lang sa visa outcome.
At the same time, sinabi rin niya na if dumating sa point na hindi na practical financially or mentally, okay lang din mag-step back — and hindi naman failure yun.
Honestly I think malaking tulong yung ganung mindset para hindi masyadong ma-pressure emotionally.