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leobsy · September 2012

looking for anyone willing to sponsor, ang hirap kasi mgapply ng walang sponsor, give me the deal,

JClem · September 2012

@ysobel I regret to inform you that only a relative or a state/territory/region or an employer can sponsor you. And below are the eligible relatives who can sponsor you based on DIAC's site:

•a child – including a stepchild
•a parent – including a step–parent
•a brother or sister – including adoptive or step-sibling
•a niece or nephew – including adoptive or step–niece or nephew
•an aunt or uncle – including adoptive or step–aunt or uncle

Or you probably meant someone willing to give you an invitation letter but that is for tourist visa only. If that is so, they maybe someone can help you here.

leobsy · September 2012

oh yes, thank you, opo what i mean is an invitation letter, my husband is there pero dependent child lng kasi visa nia, and hindi kami kasal, so parang d ako step daughter ng parents nia tama po dba?

Yukishih · September 2012

Ilan taon na sweetie pie mo?

leobsy · September 2012

22 lang this september ako 23 sa october

Yukishih · September 2012

Ah okay. Parang ang complicated ng case mo, sis. Hahaha.

leobsy · September 2012

hahahaha!!! damut damutan cla e, hahahaa d tlga parepareho ang mga tao e, kya i need to know pano mapepermanent asawa ko dun, ikaw sis nsa australia ka na?

Yukishih · September 2012

Ako? Nope, sa 20 palang flight namin. How long ba nilagay mo sis sa application mo? Single entry?

leobsy · September 2012

anyabang paalis na hehehe, anung visa mo sis? oo single entry 20days nga lng nilagay ko e, denied p dn

Yukishih · September 2012

@ysobel nde naman. Student visa ako. Magstudent visa ka na lang din. Dont lose hope baka para sa future nyo din ang iniisip ng mother ni bf mo. Things happens for a reason sis!

leobsy · September 2012

hahahhaa if you only knew!

ginusto niang makuha anak nia at kunin lht ng sahod, d nia naicp na helloooo we've been staying on my parents house for almost 6yrs and then d nia naicp na its time na makakapgsarli n kmi, na this time we can buy our child's milk gamit sarli nming pera! hahahaha

JClem · September 2012

Sorry @ysobel ha. Actually this may be out of topic na. Nag-decide din si partner mo na sumama sa mom nya sa Australia kahit may mga kids na kayo. So it wasn't only her mom who decided for it. And I think kaya din sya nag-decide is like what @Yukishih said, para naman din sa future nyo and ng 2 kids nyo. Pero sabi mo kinukuha din ng mom nya lahat ng sahod nya, you have the right to demand for a financial support kasi may mga anak kayo. If di magawa ng partner mo yun, then something must be wrong.

leobsy · September 2012

hehehe d naman po, d naman pumayag asawa ko, kya nga biglaan syang umuwi dto sa pinas kasi d nia kinaya problema dun, dba nga dapat masmagaan kasi kasma mo pamilya mo, kya lng iba ngyari tatlo clang magkakapatid ang andun, theyre living on the same house, clang tatlong magkakapatid staying on one small room, asawa ko sa sahig natutulog, pero ok lng, every week cisingil cla ng mom nia ng 100 each for house rental dw, pero ang totoong rental fee lng is 200, ok lng un e, the worst is sabhin niang "DI KAYO MAGKAKAPERA KUNG D DAHIL SAKIN, D KA MAKAKARATING DTO NG D DAHIL SAKIN" marami p yan hahaha! kokoiyok toloy hahahaha, pero ngaun andun n ulit sya. FOREVER SUMBAT dw ito hahahaa

smile!

leobsy · September 2012

and that's why gusto n kong makuha ng asawa ko, para makaalis na sa bahay na un hehehe

JClem · September 2012

Aww ang sad naman @ysobel. I'll pray for you and your family.

Anyway, if ganun situation nyo baka kahit sa Pilipinas na lang muna si hubby. Sabi mo naman both of you can provide na on your own and may business ka naman. Ano course pala nya? Ipon sya work experience tas apply na lang kayo on your own ng visa sa Australia. Honestly, medyo complicated talaga din situation nyo so baka ok din consult kayo sa migration agent. Sa ngayon wala ako marerecommend, di po kasi kami kumuha ng agent.

LokiJr · September 2012

@ysobel hehe pang mmk a hehe....kung in demand naman po yung skills niyo o tinapos, mag-apply na lang kayo ng sarili niyong visa

para walang sumbat sumbat sa huli hehe

kenkoy · September 2012

every week cisingil cla ng mom nia ng 100 each for house rental dw, pero ang totoong rental fee lng is 200, ok lng un e,

wow! saan sila nakapag rent ng $200/week considering na apat sila? maliit na room & 1 double bed lang ang rate na $200. sooo cheap. suerte naman nila kasi may pumayag.

alam mo gurl, tutal nasa legal age na kayo, why don't u decide on ur own. for me, naging panuntunan ko sa buhay, 'di ko pinababayaan ang ibang tao magpatakbo ng buhay ko. at never ko ring inasa na malubog ako sa utang na loob para walang ako pwedeng sisihin at walang manunumbat sa akin.'

sorry sa panghihimasok. as i said about ur legal age at ayaw nyo makarinig ng sumbat, let urselves learn how to run ur lives. oo nga, wala naman magagawa ang nanay ni boylet if u decide to get married. but the repurcussion of it all will affect u in the long run. life is a matter of choice. if u choose ur boylet stay in AU, i think it's but proper & respectable to be nice to the so called monster, no matter how monstrous she is. if u become nice to her, only then she will think to give u a sponsorship letter. but if u prefer to be nasty about the monster, u need to sacrifice waiting for ur boylet to obtain the PR visa. but still, establish a good relationship w/ everyone in ur boylet's family. nothing is more endearing than that. law of attraction speaks here. attract the positive energy. trust me, u will have better chances in life.

leobsy · September 2012

hehehehe, sa cairns cla, mahal p nga ung 200 a week na rent e, marami p ngang 200 below, bka mahal jan sa lugar nio, kya nga pinupush ko husband ko na magstudent visa ako, para wa;ng connect sa mga visa nila, im trying to be good with her, kya lng super abusive, ung tipong saibhan k na ng "you need to do what i say, kung d dahil sakin wala kayong pera" huwow! instant maid? hehehehe, undergrad lng asawa ko, bagger sya sa banana farm, for me sabihan ako ng ganun parang d karapatdapat, for 6yrs na may baby n kmi ni isang kusing wla syang natulong, oo she's really a big help n makuha nia SARILI NIYANG ANAK, d p b sya matuwa na nakakatulong n sya? when that happened talagang napaicp ako na may mga ganung nanay pala, anyways goodmorning everyone!

Yukishih · September 2012

Forgive your mother in law, sis. Isipin mo na lang long term benefit ng mga nangyayari. Baka naman may issues lang sila ng family nya. Try to understand na lang and hwag nyo na patulan. Wala naman magulang na naghahangad ng masama para sa anak. Baka din nasasabi nya ang mga bagay na yun to challenge ang mga anak nya. Iba lang siguro ang language of love nya.

Try to reach out sa kanya. Okay din na option ang student visa yun lang malaki ang involve na pera. May anak kayo di ba? Kasama yan sa computation kahit hindi pa sila sasama sa inyo. Magballoon pa yan if school age na kids nyo.

leobsy · September 2012

oh yes, ok naman kmi ngaun, im always willing to reach her out naman, we're good, para sakin wala lng ung mga ngyari, kaya lng may mga oras lng na kpag napapaicp ako nakakahighblood lng hehehe,

Yukishih · September 2012

Hahaha. Kasi miss mo na si hubby? Maayos din yan, sis. Before you know it magkakasama na kayo ng family mo sa Aus. Cheer up!

Metaform · September 2012

Hi ysobel. I'm sorry to hear about your dilemma. Based sa kwento mo sa itaas, maybe it is not the right time para mag-settle down kayong dalawa ni baby mo sa oz. Sabi mo undergrad bagger si Pogi, at 2 yrs nursing grad ikaw. There's a reason kung bakit inaadya ng tadhana na hindi muna ikaw pinayagan makarating doon. Bakit may points system sa mga gustong maging PR doon? Para alam ng government na kayang mag-survive ng mga taong gustong pumasok sa kanila. There are no shortcuts to anything. Hindi sa nangmamaliit ako ha? I don't know you and your capabilities, I'm just basing my opinions on the facts given above.

Suggest ko lang. Why don't you take a bachelor's course? Have at least 3 yrs experience, then apply for PR. OR, apply for a student visa. If you really want to sever your ties with your in-laws, make that as your motivation and prove them wrong na "kung hindi dahil sa kanila hindi kayo magkakapera".

All the best.

LokiJr · September 2012

^ Agree ako hehe...alam naman natin maganda buhay sa Australia (kaysa sa Pinas unless sobrang maginhawa na buhay niyo rito)...but give it time

Magastos 'magkamali' pa naman sa Australia hehe

sheep · September 2012

yup..tama ang mga advice...kahit gaano kasama ang in laws,we should respect them..baka nga totoo na may mga issues sila sa kanilang personal life in the family na nag tritriger sa ganun na treatment,pls be patient kasi we cannot think and make a wrong move based on our emotion especially pag galit tayo..tiis tiis muna,tama sabi nila everything have a reason in which i personally experienced that saying..!tama rin po na in order to proved na mali yung manugang mo why not studying there and employed to gain experienced and applied for a visa in australia para maproved mo na mali sila at wala silang masumbat...when you do this 'it envolves strong determination and maybe so much pain emotionally but just ask for guidance to our lord and then after enduring all of that ,you will know only nandiyan ka na pala sa australia,Giving the option if i am in your shoes,i will opt to stay and study there in the phil's than to study in australia,kc malaki ang matipid mo dito at yung natipid mo magagamit mopa sa australian application mo in the future tsaka mahirap pag nanduon ka bka hindi ka mkaconsentrate sa study mo giving the situation,anyway makauwi nman c hubby mo.....thnaks hope it helps...